Small Gestures Mean a Lot


Josie Leavitt - December 13, 2011

I’ve probably written about how much I love living in a small town before, but two things happened yesterday that thrilled me about small town life.
I was slammed, there was no doubt about it. I reached into my little fridge and pulled out what I needed: an iced coffee. I took a sip and almost gagged. The coffee was old and had turned. Henry and Mary observed the whole episode. And in a blink of an eye, they had gone across the street and gotten me a replacement coffee. And the funny thing is both Mary and I have our own drinks at the coffee shop, so they knew what to order without even asking. I thanked them profusely and offered to pay, and they refused. They were just happy to get me my caffeine for the long selling day.
At the end of the day I had the brilliant idea to zip to the post office to mail out one media mail package. I’m not really sure what I was thinking. There was a line 25 people deep. I was about to turn around and leave when the last person in line offered to mail it for me. I was incredulous. She said she had to mail her packages, and was happy to mail mine. I was thrilled. I was also without any cash or a check. “I’ll just bring the receipt by the store.” Wow! Forty minutes later Anna came by with a receipt for $2.82. I paid her, offered her some sugar plums and vowed to return the favor when I had the chance.
You know, during the season when retailers hit the ground running from the start of the day until well past closing, these little gestures can totally turn a day around and I’m grateful for them; tomorrow I will buy someone a coffee.

6 thoughts on “Small Gestures Mean a Lot”

  1. Tegan

    I have a feeling these folks were happy to do all these things for you not just because you’re in a small town but because they know that you have done similar things for them. I bet you open the store early if someone is waiting outside; you let people take books home and pay over the phone if they forgot their wallets; you cover the tax when a kid saved up just enough for the cover price of the latest book in the series they love; and you deliver by hand to a customer who’s recovering from surgery or illness– and ask if they need anything from the grocery store while you’re on your way. At the store where I work, Queen Anne Books, we’ve done all these things for customers we know, and we’re right in the heart of Seattle. I believe that kindness does come back to you; what lovely proof you provide here. Thank you for all the small gestures you do for your community, and thank you for passing on the warm results!

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    1. Shelftalker Elizabeth

      Tegan, I love Queen Anne Books just from your comment above. You’re right that community stores do (if they’re worth their salt) do these kinds of things, happily and as a matter of course. We’re certainly not perfect, but it’s so wonderful to be a living, breathing part of a neighborhood — and I think in this day of so much online, impersonal commerce, people do appreciate the humanity of their community stores. Have a wonderful end of the year!!

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  2. catherine james

    Josie & Elizabeth,
    I *LOVE* reading your blog. I have a tendency to get bogged down in what’s wrong with the world today and how difficult it is to bring about change. I often find myself searching places to serve as refuges of hope for particularly difficult days. Shelftalker has become one of those places. I am thankful every day you ladies post and I hope you never stop. Long live The Flying Pig!!!

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    1. Shelftalker Elizabeth

      Wow, Catherine! Thank you so much for your kind words. We can’t tell you what it means to read something like this at the end of a long (very long) day. We’ll do our very best to keep you entertained and to be hopeful along the way. Thanks again. : )

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