{"id":16662,"date":"2015-08-13T06:38:10","date_gmt":"2015-08-13T10:38:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogs.publishersweekly.com\/blogs\/shelftalker\/?p=16662"},"modified":"2015-08-13T06:38:10","modified_gmt":"2015-08-13T10:38:10","slug":"real-giving","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/blogs.publishersweekly.com\/blogs\/shelftalker\/?p=16662","title":{"rendered":"Real Giving"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;d own a bookstore over a giving tree any day. Real giving is, after all, not unilateral. It is a dialectical growth that enriches everyone involved. A bookstore is all about real giving.<br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/wordpress.publishersweekly.com\/blogs\/shelftalker\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/threetales-2.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-16665\" alt=\"threetales\" src=\"http:\/\/wordpress.publishersweekly.com\/blogs\/shelftalker\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/threetales-2.jpg\" width=\"200\" \/><\/a>What first woke me up to the power and importance of children&#8217;s books in the bookstore was having a child, 22 years ago. The bookstore has been an integral, dynamic element in our relationship ever since.<br \/>\n<!--more--><br \/>\nIn the beginning it was all about surrounding our family with the best picture books I could lay my hands on, blads and finished copies, freebies and swag to be shared and tested, kept on or sent back to the store. My immersion in children&#8217;s books climbed the genre age ladder as my son grew. The best read-aloud experiences at home \u2013 <em>My<\/em> <i>Father&#8217;s Dragon<\/i>, the Moomintroll books, <i>The Hobbit<\/i> \u2013 will always be evergreen titles at the store. Give and take. Take and give.<br \/>\n<div id=\"attachment_16664\" style=\"width: 340px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"http:\/\/wordpress.publishersweekly.com\/blogs\/shelftalker\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/pwreidgood-2.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-16664\" class=\"size-full wp-image-16664 \" alt=\"pwreidgood\" src=\"http:\/\/wordpress.publishersweekly.com\/blogs\/shelftalker\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/pwreidgood-2.jpg\" width=\"330\" height=\"248\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-16664\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Grading Order of the Acromantula slips at The Harry Potter 7 party.<\/p><\/div><br \/>\nThe bookstore was an endless supplier of books and shared experiences, the pace and complexity of the exchange a mirror to his development. Reid was the perfect age to catch the seven-set Harry Potter wave, which we rode together as a store and a family through all the party planning, and book discussing, and Jim Dale listening.<br \/>\nTime went on. The bookstore was also a place for him to be and to work. From charming our customers as a seven-year-old at the cash register to being legally and gainfully employed from age 14 on, the store was a place where we shared time and developed our relationship. Time went on. He caught some of the best frontlist ARCs. His &#8220;you need to read this&#8221; titles included <i>The Night Circus<\/i> and <i>Lexicon<\/i>, and several other of our bestselling and most evergreen recommended titles. The Magician&#8217;s trilogy? We sold it and talked it to the nines.<br \/>\nTime went on. \u00a0He ran the store on college break so my wife Nora and I could take a summer vacation. He told me my faults as a manager that no one else would have told me. We talked books and people and shared the language of the bookstore from day one. Wednesday, August 5th was Reid&#8217;s last day at the store. He moved to Athens, Georgia for an M.F.A. program in painting. Change. Wonderful and sad. Owning a bookstore has been the greatest of gifts. It can&#8217;t be measured any more than the power of a book can be measured.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Growing up and on in a bookstore.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":8,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16662","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/blogs.publishersweekly.com\/blogs\/shelftalker\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16662","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/blogs.publishersweekly.com\/blogs\/shelftalker\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/blogs.publishersweekly.com\/blogs\/shelftalker\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/blogs.publishersweekly.com\/blogs\/shelftalker\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/8"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/blogs.publishersweekly.com\/blogs\/shelftalker\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=16662"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/blogs.publishersweekly.com\/blogs\/shelftalker\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16662\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/blogs.publishersweekly.com\/blogs\/shelftalker\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=16662"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/blogs.publishersweekly.com\/blogs\/shelftalker\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=16662"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/blogs.publishersweekly.com\/blogs\/shelftalker\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=16662"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}